Poly, long-haired butch, lover of singletails. Partnered happily with Belle, living mostly in the SF area. She started the public (and often private) kinky life in 1980 and has had that natural ebb and flow of life in and out of the community. Found a portal to spirit thru the dance of the singletail. A favorite thing for me is to teach someone else who also feels the pull of the whip. Whip virgins encouraged to apply. <grin>